Monday, May 9, 2011

Sacrifice For Love?

In the name of love, many people are "behind Stand up for" sacrifice anything. Objective one, for the happy couple. But, should up to that?

That said, the girl claimed to be the party of the most sacrifices for men. Meanwhile, there are many who feel arjuna has been "sacrificed" his love and painstaking care.

Regardless of which side the most sacrifices, psychotherapist Dr. Laura Schlessinger, in Los Angeles, USA, to assess "sacrifice" is the dumbest thing people do.

Of course, Schlessinger did not mean to invite us to be selfish, and not indifference. The proof, he advised us to remain patient and uphold tolerance.

Balanced. It is said also, women had higher levels of tolerance and patience higher than men. Perhaps that is why, the woman becomes the more sacrifices or succumb.

In fact, "Many women who felt compelled to make sacrifices. In fact, not a few women feel happy for his sacrifice. In fact, the condition that, far from a healthy relationship."

In fact, that true happiness can only be obtained if there is a balance. "So, not only women or men who have to make sacrifices. But it must be both."

`In a certain portion, sacrifice or give in would really help a relationship. But if left constantly, conditions that can be reversed into a time bomb, ready to explode at any time.

So, never fear to negotiate any conditions or problems encountered. It can be a lesson of tolerance for couples, and authorization for your lesson.





When Asmara in Point Saturated



Sooner or later, will come when the love affair reached a saturation point. So prepare yourself to face it. When the time reaches this point, then all that happened would seem so monotonous and boring. The relationship feels 'cold' and bland. When this happens, what to do?

Nita Tucker in How not to screw it up, have special tips to overcome them. Back to the past and remember the good times fall in love once, you can warm up again romance.

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Browse back your love story with open old albums, or read love letters when they were dating. Bring the good times that in words.
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Ask your partner, what was once made him interested in you. It can arouse memories and re thrill you.
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If you still remember the first time he expressed his love, there's nothing wrong celebrated with a movie and dinner together. The impact, will be felt.

Or, you can follow the advice Dan Zevin in The Nearly-Wed Handbook:



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Hanging out with peers who are single, can add warmth. Listen to their stories, and you'll better appreciate the presence of a partner.
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Separate residence for the time being will also be very helpful. Not to escape, but to realize the existence of a partner. Experience the beauty of longing without a partner beside you.

All the effort that will burn back the fire of love that was almost extinguished. So, do not let your love grow cold.

You never experienced it?

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