YOU may never having an affair with a man who seemed ready to get married, but was always evasive when pressed immediately apply. Apparently, age does not play an important role in the reasons they put forward.
Men in their early 40s may not be willing or not ready for marriage, not like men in their early 20s. On the other hand, there are many men who want to get married soon after graduating college. So actually, what was the reason he remains menjomblo?
Consider five of them answer, as reported by Galtime.
Freedom
There are many benefits to getting married, but freedom is not the perceived benefits of some guy. When single, men's free to go wherever they want, free to eat anything, anytime.
According to them, women become binding kebebebasannya after marriage. His wife spent the money, but only on things as he wishes. Marriage can change a lot of circumstances. Some men still like being single just because they do not want to give up their freedom.
Joy
Being a single man made free adventure; come to the party until late or knitting love with several women. Every time an opportunity for him to new adventures and adrenaline pumping in a fun challenge. Problem married, there's always tomorrow, right? So he thought.
Not according fantasy
Each man had a fantasy ideal about their future life partner. Diidamkannya figure may be an underwear model or one of the stars of erotic. Because not one woman in real life that matches their fantasies, some men are willing to keep searching until they find it.
During keep looking, they stick to their dreams and not be able to commit to regular female figure that is far from fantasy.
Fear of responsibility
With the wedding (including children), then came responsibility. For some men, it was scary. Other responsibilities of having a life partner is holding the value of loyalty.
Have not really grown
Marriage and children is for adults who are responsible and want to share and give. A good marriage depends on such values. Being a parent is 100 percent giving without expecting any compensation.
Children are basically selfish. Their main focus is to get what they want. They spent the days with eating, sleeping, playing, and bear no responsibility whatsoever. All they need to do is follow the simple rules and have fun.
Well, some men never grow up to accept it all as the children remain with their properties.
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